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what becoming more secure does to a mfer
After I quit my first job two years ago, I was conflict-avoidant to the point of depression. I did ~nothing for five months and moved in with my parents…
Aug 22
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“Try to make me as anxious as possible.”
We had broken up a month earlier, but decided to spend Thanksgiving together as friends. On the first day, she tells me about her new partner. I ask…
Jul 23
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I didn't have to avoid you; I was just insecure
The first time we spoke, you asked me some questions that felt really invasive. I didn’t want that to happen again, so I avoided you the entire…
Jul 18
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How can I feel okay regardless of how others behave?
Previously: > I couldn’t stop wondering, What had I done to cause her to ghost me? What should I have done instead? What can I do to make her like me…
Mar 27
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The time I almost dated a subscriber
"Hi Chris, I subscribed to your blog a while ago and think you're really cool. Would love to meet you and be friends:)" - We find a bench and sit not…
Mar 22
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Depression was useful?
2022. I was depressed. There’s five months where I couldn’t tell you what I did. I remember wondering during that time, “Why am I so depressed? Why are…
Feb 24
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Befriending wild chipmunks is quick and easy!
Today I want you to meet my pal Stripes! Stripes was a wild chipmunk that lived outside of my house in 2019 and 2020, and we were close friends! But…
Feb 26, 2023
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