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Aim at what you want!
Listen now | Max and Chris discuss how aiming at what you want gets you more of what you want — and how aiming at what you don’t want gets you more of…
Jun 6
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Chris Lakin
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Max Shen
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“Flaky breakthroughs” pervade coaching — but no one tracks them
Has someone you know ever had a “breakthrough” from coaching, meditation, or psychedelics — only to later have it fade?
Jun 4
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Chris Lakin
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“Flaky breakthroughs” pervade coaching — but no one tracks them
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You are happy by default
If you’re unhappy, things and experiences will make you happier… right?
Jun 3
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Chris Lakin
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You are happy by default
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10x Therapists, 10x Coaches
The best therapists facilitate 10x faster change than average; the worst therapists make people worse.
May 29
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Chris Lakin
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10x Therapists, 10x Coaches
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Social anxiety isn't about being liked
There's this popular idea that socially anxious folks are just dying to be liked.
May 16
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Chris Lakin
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Progress = fewer bad moments
Most people I help start with a tiny misconception that can wreck their progress.
May 7
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Chris Lakin
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Dancing between flow and structure
Chris and Joanna riff: The dance between flow and structure, between openness and commitment between the receptive energy we often call feminine, and…
Apr 28
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Chris Lakin
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Joanna
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Coaching + Bounty model training
I am offering training for:
Mar 26
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Chris Lakin
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Coaching + Bounty model training
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Video: “Expressing attraction feels fun now” —Sid
Previously, Sid was unable to unlearn his socially avoidant behaviors despite hundreds of hours of meditation, retreats, and 120 hours of IFS therapy.
Mar 8
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Chris Lakin
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Video: “Expressing attraction feels fun now” —Sid
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Do you need years more therapy, or could one conversation make the difference?
I’ve been trying to help people resolve lifelong issues from one conversation. Occasionally it works.
Feb 28
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Chris Lakin
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Do you need years more therapy, or could one conversation make the difference?
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Results-based coaching provides stronger evidence for effectiveness
Most coaches charge hourly. This makes sense: predictable income, easy scheduling, matches industry norms. But paying for results — “bounties” — creates…
Jan 3
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Chris Lakin
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Video: Antoine’s 1-year follow-up
I used to get triggered by very small things that some of the people surrounding me would say or do… These things would incapacitate me for 48 hours, I…
Dec 25, 2024
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Chris Lakin
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Video: Antoine’s 1-year follow-up
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