What I’m doing now (as of May 26, 2024)

I research the physics of social interaction. For humans—

—and also for aligned AIs.

Events in SF

Favorites:

May 20, 2024. Retrospective.
March 14, 2024. Tweet.
March 29, 2024

Get notified of my next event: chrislakin.events. (If you’d like to host an event together, let me know.)

Coaching

I facilitate the shift from insecure attachment to secure attachment. I charge based on results, and I try to do all of it in a single evening.

(I would like to be able to facilitate 100% of this shift in a single session, but currently I’m only able to facilitate a fraction of it in that time.)

I charge “25% of the value you get from it, as assessed by you in 3–12 months” in dollars (or equity). For example, if you determine it was worth $50k to you, then you pay me $12.5k. But if you don’t benefit then you pay nothing.

My session with Chris was significantly more productive than the last 6 months of professional CBT and talk therapy I did combined.

Email.

More ways to connect with me

If you like my blog, you'll probably like me.

  • Email me spontaneously.

  • Twitter me.

  • I’ll be visiting Prague, Geneva, and Helsinki in June.


Random

  • My tweet about an event went viral and inspired a similar event in NYC (2). That event also inspired a whole series of events in Toronto (2).

  • Intuitive bodywork: stretching and flexibility, massage, calisthenics, partner stretching

  • Vibes I like

    • abstract and technical yet playful and silly (kiki x bouba). Intuition. Holistic curiosity.

    • “taking heavy things lightly”, “Here’s something we usually avoid. Let’s head straight for it.”

  • I’ve eaten mostly only meat since 2020

  • When I have kids

  • Q: How can teleology and etiology be unified?

  • collective intelligence — How do groups coordinate while defending themselves from internal cancers?

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