What I’m doing now (as of May 22, 2024)

I research the physics of social interaction. For humans—

—and also for aligned AIs.

Events in SF

Favorites:

May 20, 2024. Retrospective.
March 14, 2024. Tweet.
March 29, 2024

Get notified of my next event by email: chrislakin.events

If you’d like to cohost an event, let me know.

Coaching

Do you want other people to treat you better, or would you rather have a sense of internal security where it doesn’t matter what others do? I facilitate this shift for others. My ultimate goal is to learn how to facilitate secure attachment and its integration in a single session, even if I can't completely do that right now.

My rate is “25% of the value you get from it, as assessed by you in 3–12 months” or equity. E.g. $50k → $12.5k, $0 → $0.

My one session with Chris was significantly more productive than the prior 6 months of CBT and talk therapy I did, put together

Within just a few hours we made a tangible difference in how secure I feel.

Right now I’m mostly focusing on founders. Email.

More ways to connect with me

If you like my blog, you'll probably like me.

  • Email me spontaneously.

  • Twitter me.

  • I’ll be visiting Prague, Geneva, and Helsinki in June.


Random

  • My tweet about an event went viral and inspired a similar event in NYC (2). That event also inspired a whole series of events in Toronto (2).

  • Intuitive bodywork: stretching and flexibility, massage, calisthenics, partner stretching

  • Vibes I like

    • abstract and technical yet playful and silly (kiki x bouba). Intuition. Holistic curiosity.

    • “taking heavy things lightly”, “Here’s something we usually avoid. Let’s head straight for it.”

  • I’ve eaten mostly only meat since 2020

  • When I have kids

  • Q: How can teleology and etiology be unified?

  • collective intelligence — How do groups coordinate while defending themselves from internal cancers?

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