About Chris Lakin

I spend most of my time with founders, doing research, and with my gf.

In my spare time, I host weird events, matchmake my friends, and try intuitive health experiments.

Previously, I worked on boundaries for AI alignment, a metascience non-profit, and physics at Carnegie Mellon.

Twitter: @chrislakin

Updated January 2026 from San Francisco.

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I used to be anxious, insecure, romantically validation-seeking, overwhelmed by emotions, avoidant, depressed, in chronic pain, etc. I unlearned it. Then I wondered: “How could’ve it been 10x easier?”

Unlearn what's in the way

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May 16, 2025
Unlearn what's in the way

You know something’s in the way.

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