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everyone I've watched drop their addictions did not try
doomscrolling, vaping, porn, overworking, dating — they were surprised when their addictions stopped happening.
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Social anxiety isn't about being liked
May 16, 2025
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Unlearn what’s in the way
Jun 17, 2024
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“Wait, feelings are supposed to be IN THE BODY?”
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Why we create our suffering
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What it’s like to become an intuitive person: Daniel
Daniel, an AI researcher published in Nature, gained ~5h/day after working with me.
Jan 28
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Jun 17, 2024
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What went wrong when I matchmade my friends
74 of my friends were single and looking.
Dec 19, 2025
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Flirt like it’s predetermined
My mindset shifted from “Flirting to convince others to like me.” to “Flirting to discover who loves my relaxed self.”
Nov 2, 2025
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“Wait, feelings are supposed to be IN THE BODY?”
Mentor: “…and how do you feel in your body about that?” Me: “Wait, feelings are supposed to be IN THE BODY?”
Oct 29, 2025
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Unlearning one-shots, >1 year later
People can grow quick when they’re ripe for it.
Oct 25, 2025
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Why we create our suffering
Locally optimal strategies
Oct 22, 2025
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Unlearning is Underrated.
I used to have immense trouble with flirting, saying ‘No’, and “self-acceptance”—and now I don’t.
Aug 25, 2025
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