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Dr. Gena Gorlin's avatar

I’ve had some “one-off” successes like this too (sometimes in as little as 30 minutes, though this was in an environment where we had a lot of shared context). A lot of your intuitions about this match mine, and I hadn’t actually made the “anxious vs avoidant” heuristic explicit to myself until I read your account of it, so thank you! Also love the “bounty” idea, and will think about how I might be able to implement it in my own practice.

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Matthew's avatar

This was a pleasure to read, I have been surprised on a few occasions when I have been told that something I said was transformative, I use metaphors very often and sometimes they really hit home for people.

One was talking about loss/grief, and I talked about what it's like to close a book and hold it in your hands, and the impact that it had even several months later surprised me immensely.

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