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Video: “Expressing attraction feels fun now” —Sid

Previously, Sid was unable to unlearn his socially avoidant behaviors despite hundreds of hours of meditation, retreats, and 120 hours of IFS therapy.

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0:00: Expressing attraction is fun and easy now
1:39: Recent example
2:50: Physical touch
3:34: Staying with tension
4:10: Unexpected benefits in other relationships (startup, friends, family)
4:55: Expressing disagreements at work
5:32: Example: Texting friends "I miss you" without pretense
5:50: Example: Expressing anger to his mother
6:42: Different than previous coaching/therapy
7:40: The technique as a "visualization loop" with many reps
9:24: "feels like magic, but… you gotta actually put in the work"
12:10: Previous therapy attempts: IFS, retreats, meditation
14:17: The bounty model let him bring his most important problem
15:15: "Four retreats worth of value"
15:32: Questions for Chris

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