Unlearn what's in the way

Jun 17, 2024

You know something’s in the way. You’re ready to unlearn it.

At the founding, unlearning was “100% bounty” — all payment literally forbidden until long-term results. It was fun!1 Now commitment is required: half upfront, half when genuinely satisfied. $64k — or $36k for people working on positive futures.

Can expense to company. DM if ready: Twitter / chris@chrislakin.com2

Chris Lakin @chrislakin
I once worked with an AI researcher who, at the age of 27, suddenly became an intuitive person. He went from being introverted, asexual, and frugal his whole life to hosting hot pot parties, asking people out, and buying clothes because they “match his vibe”
Dec 17, 2025 · 1.7M Views 9.8K likes — *Nature*-published AI researcher gained 6 hours per day

Chris Lakin @chrislakin
This is how a founder I worked with went from women telling him he was "kind of cringe" on first dates to dating a model

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Caroline @carolinecwilder
Men, here’s the secret: If your presence doesn’t calm and regulate her nervous system, literally nothing else you do matters. Nothing.

Jan 2, 2026 · 199.8K Views 1.9K likes — Founder

Chris Lakin @chrislakin
extreme example: guy came for approach anxiety, went home, immediately fell asleep (at 5pm!), woke up with muscle soreness. within two weeks he'd asked out multiple crushes. several months laeter he asked out his gf

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Richard Ludlow @richardludlow "My conclusion from trying many healing modalities over the past two years is that the feeling of 'holy shit, that was profound!' is a surprisingly weak predictor of tangible lasting benefits, but physical tension dropping away in a new way is a strong predictor." The phrase "physical tension dropping away in a new way" is highlighted in a pink/salmon-colored box.

October 25, 2025 · 123K views 1.7K likes — AI founder, now happy relationship

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