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Unusual ways to run unusual events
i will briefly be in nyc later this month and running flirt fest: the awkward edition. please send to nyc friends who’d like! i may run some other…
Jan 19
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Results-based coaching provides stronger evidence for effectiveness
Most coaches charge hourly. This makes sense: predictable income, easy scheduling, matches industry norms. But paying for results — “bounties” — creates…
Jan 3
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December 2024
The Results-Based Coaching Experiment
To validate whether what we do works, we only accept payment after results.People we’ve helped have paid $58k:“net suffering has greatly diminished” →…
Dec 28, 2024
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Chris Lakin
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“I used to get triggered by very small things… Now I just laugh” —Antoine
Antoine was the first person I ever tried to help in this capacity.
Dec 25, 2024
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Chris Lakin
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“I used to get triggered by very small things… Now I just laugh” —Antoine
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People enjoying horror movies is proof they will enjoy ‘horror events’
Would you enjoy this one?
Dec 22, 2024
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Chris Lakin
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One of my new friends said, “You’re so adventurous.” —Bob
Last summer, Bob came to me with lifelong anxiety that eight years of therapy hadn’t resolved.
Dec 22, 2024
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One of my new friends said, “You’re so adventurous.” —Bob
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Being Present is Not a Skill
Some meditation advice has a vibe like...
Dec 18, 2024
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Chris Lakin
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Just one more exposure bro
“Just expose yourself to more social situations!” — Ah yes, you felt anxious the first 100 times, but the 101st will be the breakthrough!
Dec 12, 2024
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Chris Lakin
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November 2024
“How do parts form a whole?”
The question on my mind for the past 2y.
Nov 26, 2024
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Chris Lakin
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“How do parts form a whole?”
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Locally optimal psychology
There’s no way that chronic depression, self-loathing, poor agency, or muscle tension could be optimal… right?
Nov 23, 2024
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Chris Lakin
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How do you run an event where strangers feel safe sharing their most cancellable beliefs?
Plausible deniability!
Nov 16, 2024
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How do you run an event where strangers feel safe sharing their most cancellable beliefs?
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What if muscle tension is sometimes signal jamming?
Why do we often experience feelings as in the body? For example, why do I feel anxiety in my chest rather than just “knowing” I'm anxious?
Nov 4, 2024
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