Stories
Chris Lakin@chrislakin
one of my founders started naturally texting friends "hey, how are you doing?" and "I miss you" after unlearning. he'd never done this before. we never discussed it
cold 🥑 @coldhealing
Most people send 10% as many text messages as they should. You should text your old friends when you think of them, you should text your new friends about the weather. You should text ex-girlfriends way more often. You should text mom more often but everyone agrees with that
6:25 AM · Feb 4, 2026 · 509K Views
8 Replies · 27 Reposts · 2.72K Likes
Chris Lakin@chrislakin
an AI exec I know had never negotiated. was about to walk away from his role instead. then one day he did. came away from the negotiation w/ working only 2h/day for the same comp. told me "you probably saved me a couple million haha"
ananta @meansinfinity
all those “how to negotiate” articles I read at the beginning of my career failed to convey to me that negotiating just becomes natural if you actually believe in your worth
10:54 PM · Feb 13, 2026 · 14.3K Views
2 Replies · 3 Reposts · 211 Likes
Chris Lakin@chrislakin
a researcher I know went from playing it safe with everything in life to building a zip line in his office in like three months. his coworkers were amazed
Visakan Veerasamy @visakanv
the more and better access everyone has to tools, resources, etc, the clearer it becomes that the final boss bottlenecks are courage, imagination and giving a shit
9:31 PM · Feb 21, 2026 · 10.1K Views
4 Replies · 10 Reposts · 332 Likes
Chris Lakin@chrislakin
I once worked with an AI researcher who, at the age of 27, suddenly became an intuitive person. He went from being introverted, asexual, and frugal his whole life to hosting hot pot parties, asking people out, and buying clothes because they “match his vibe”
1:16 AM · Dec 18, 2025 · 1.78M Views
164 Replies · 146 Reposts · 9.73K Likes
Chris Lakin@chrislakin
extreme example: guy came for approach anxiety, went home, immediately fell asleep (at 5pm!), woke up with muscle soreness. within two weeks he'd asked out multiple crushes. several months later he asked out his gf
3:00 PM · Oct 25, 2025 · 198K Views
13 Replies · 28 Reposts · 1.72K Likes
Chris Lakin@chrislakin
a guy I know went from eating alone his whole life to throwing dinner parties every friday. something just flipped
Ava @noampomsky
wait I love this
5:17 PM · Feb 18, 2026 · 884K Views
82 Replies · 1.62K Reposts · 37.8K Likes
Chris Lakin@chrislakin
This is how a founder I worked with went from women telling him he was "kind of cringe" on first dates to dating a model
Caroline @carolinecwilder
Men, here’s the secret: If your presence doesn’t calm and regulate her nervous system, literally nothing else you do matters. Nothing.
3:29 AM · Jan 3, 2026 · 200K Views
5 Replies · 35 Reposts · 1.95K Likes
Chris Lakin@chrislakin
worked with a founder who thought his dating anxiety was due to fear of rejection. was actually fear of acceptance. he has a girlfriend now
7:48 PM · Nov 8, 2025 · 49.4K Views
19 Replies · 13 Reposts · 530 Likes
Chris Lakin@chrislakin
a guy I know used to get incapacitated for 48 hours if you said something like "you told me you didn't like corn. so why did you buy corn?" he'd completely shut down. now he just goes "yeah, you're right, i don't know why i did that" and laughs it's great
Sahil Bloom @SahilBloom
Major cheat code for life: Increase your recovery speed. You will get rejected. You will lose money. You will embarrass yourself. The goal isn't to avoid the fall. It's to shorten the time between the fall and the reset. Fast recovery compounds.
6:49 PM · Feb 17, 2026 · 202K Views
5 Replies · 33 Reposts · 2.54K Likes
Chris Lakin@chrislakin
One of my founders unlocked this mindset,
met his girl,
they’ve been together since September.
5:23 PM · Feb 14, 2026 · 60.3K Views
8 Replies · 122 Reposts · 2.73K Likes
Chris Lakin@chrislakin
he broke up with pornhub after 20 years 💔
9:48 PM · Dec 9, 2025 · 9.87K Views
4 Replies · 1 Repost · 99 Likes
