Unlearn what’s in the way
I used to be painfully anxious, insecure, validating-seeking, overwhelmed by emotions, avoidant, depressed, in chronic pain, etc. I unlearned it. Then I wondered: “How could it’d been 10x easier?”
I created my own models drawing from Predictive Processing, and now I work with founders and AI researchers to unlearn what’s in the way— especially when years of therapy, IFS, and meditation fell short.
Payment is half upfront, half bounty — forbidden until your genuine satisfaction with results.
Most who work with me expense to their company.
Text for screening: Twitter | chris@chrislakin.com
“I do a lot more things… Being social, spending more time with friends... reading good books to improve my thinking... writing things, putting myself out on the web more, communicating my ideas… hot pot party. We just did another one yesterday.”
— AI researcher (interview)
“It’s exactly the stuff I pictured doing but never really did.”
— Engineer, didn’t take social risks (interview)




