Unlearn therapy-resistant insecurities (Bounties)

Jun 17, 2024

ORIGINAL: I used to be painfully anxious, insecure, validating-seeking, overwhelmed by emotions, avoidant, depressed, in chronic pain, etc. I unlearned it. Then I wondered: "How could it’d been 10x easier?"
I created my own models drawing from Predictive Processing, and now I help founders, AI people, and highly agentic individuals resolve their most painful emotional issue— especially when years of therapy, IFS, and meditation fell short.

UPDATED 2025 MAY 15:

At the founding, this service was "100% bounty" — all payment literally forbidden until long-term results.

I learned two things from running this experiment:

First, there are people who are best served by more routine paths, like talk therapy or self-help apps, and then there are people who are serious.

Second, even with serious people, results require both our inputs: my insight and your effort.

The structure now reflects this.

Payment is committed: half at beginning, and half at bounty, at the time of your genuine satisfaction with results.

You may choose from two tiers:

$12k — 8 weeks of advising, with substantial take-home work
$30k — 8 weeks of premium advising, with the same significant take-home, plus priority response time

Text me (Twitter, Whatsapp, email) to request a call.

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This service supports personal growth and professional development; it is not therapy or medical treatment. Confidentiality: Information shared is used to improve practice; identifying details always remain confidential.