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Jon B's avatar

This is very insightful! It's the sort of thing where once I read it laid out like this, it makes perfect sense. But I wouldn't have thought through this logic and come to these conclusions myself. It's surprising, yet convincing.

Though when I reached the end of this piece, it seemed like a musical phrase that went unresolved, or ended where it began. "What would you like to do about that?" Be cognizant of social cues and feel free to express myself... Isn't that right back where this started?

Will have to keep thinking about this.

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Thomas del Vasto's avatar

Sounds beautiful. I have had some of this untangle myself but it doesn't seem to last, although it has gotten better over time.

What makes it stuck for your clients?

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Chris Lakin's avatar

Now that I think of it, something this post doesn't include is stress-testing. It's the same process, except also imagining yourself in situations that would be particularly triggering for you.

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