I've been in a similar situation and I think I understand it. No matter how insanely compatible you two are, if you started on shaky ground (like for example, not fully disclosing being in a monogamous relationship), then the dynamic is slowly poisoned over time. The guilt feelings probably outweighed any positive and thus it didn't feel good to reconnect. I'm very sorry this happened to you.
I've been in a similar situation and I think I understand it. No matter how insanely compatible you two are, if you started on shaky ground (like for example, not fully disclosing being in a monogamous relationship), then the dynamic is slowly poisoned over time. The guilt feelings probably outweighed any positive and thus it didn't feel good to reconnect. I'm very sorry this happened to you.
So frustrating for the communication to drop off
Such beautiful details in midjourney pictures - you the cat and the last one without her
Makes me think of the "Before Sunrise" trilogy, still need to watch the last one...