Surely there is a point after which it’s proven that these aren’t misunderstandings, and they really are willing to hurt you? Or at least deliberately intimidate you? Then do you get to be anxious without feeling like it’s your own fault?
I feel like a lot of my difficulties in conflicts actually comes not from fear of getting hurt myself, but from fear of hurting the other person (which then would be my fault).
Seems like there are different types of conflict anxiety like there are types of relationship insecurity (like anxious, avoidant)?
Surely there is a point after which it’s proven that these aren’t misunderstandings, and they really are willing to hurt you? Or at least deliberately intimidate you? Then do you get to be anxious without feeling like it’s your own fault?
some of us have an evil coworker or two, in an otherwise satisfying workplace
I feel like a lot of my difficulties in conflicts actually comes not from fear of getting hurt myself, but from fear of hurting the other person (which then would be my fault).
Seems like there are different types of conflict anxiety like there are types of relationship insecurity (like anxious, avoidant)?